How to Create the Perfect Romantic Evening

Tuesday, August 29, 2017

An evening alone with someone special can be one of the most enjoyable experiences we can have in life, the fluttering butterflies in your stomach as you anticipate what awaits. As with all other things in life, to ensure your night is success for you and your lover, you must plan how you imagine the night should be, and start making your preparations. Fixed for a romantic evening but don't know how to get ready? We’ve got all the key information you need to be a romance professional. Check out a few simple tips for creating the perfect romantic evening:


    Schedule Your Beauty Time

You hope to conclude your night with sensual intimacy, so make sure to take care of everything from head to toe. If you need any beauty treatments like waxing, manicure, pedicure, spray tan, etc. - get these appointments scheduled ahead of time. The week of, take a loofah with body wash and exfoliate your entire body every time you shower; lightly dry off and moisturize your whole body. This will keep your skin soft and supple, silky to the touch. If you’re the kind of gal that loves makeup, keep in mind that heavy lipsticks and lip glosses might not be the best for kissing. Opt for moist lips without the lingering affects of colored lipstick. Aquafor, chapstick, or a little vaseline can do the job. 


    Avoid Junk

Salty meals and snacks can make you bloated. So avoid potato chips, fast food, and ramen noodles for a week before your hot date. Devouring meals with a considerable measure of sodium will just add water weight, making your tummy look round and bigger than normal. They say, “you are what you eat,” so stick to a healthy diet for at least a few days before to keep your body clear of toxins and possibly even drop a pound or two.


    Plan Your Night

Having an idea of how you intend the night to play out will more likely result in it ending up that way. Do you want to have a full meal, or just some cocktails and nibbles? Do you want to cook, get take out, or have a few glasses of wine with a cheese board and dried fruits? Whatever you choose, figure out what you need and serve on nice china, plateware and glassware if you have. If you want to do an activity, think about what your partner might like to do. Find a way to play some kind of game, it keeps the mood light while the challenge of winning makes it fun. If you're open to experimenting, try inducing a fetish like a pleasure set, sure to spice up your festivities. If you’re a movie buff, pick out something you know your special someone will enjoy. 


    Set the Mood

When planning your sexy night, two essential elements must be paid attention: the lighting and the smell! Give your romantic space that inviting glow it doesn't normally have. Everyone looks best in candle light so you can tackle both by getting a delicious scented candle like LELO’s Flickering Touch Massage Candle. These all natural soy wax and shea butter candles melt into an exquisite pool of luxurious massage oil while the subtle fragrance excites your senses for the pleasures that lie ahead. Flowers are always nice and make a space feel more elegant and beautiful, so try to incorporate them into your setting. Music is great for setting a specific mood, and you can choose a playlist with upbeat tunes like latin jazz, Brazilian samba, or belly dancing music, which can also be a conversation point.


    Bring Sexy Back

Getting ready for a romantic night is an ideal opportunity to buy some gorgeous new lingerie. If you want to tease your partner, ask them if what kind of lingerie they think is sexy. This tactic can create a sense of desire and let’s them fantasize a bit about what their woman will show up wearing. However, you might be keeping your new lingerie ensemble a secret weapon that you will only show off at the perfect moment. Whichever way you play it, take your time in finding the right color, fabric, cut, and style for your special night. Get something you know your lover will like, as well as you will love to see yourself in.


Regardless of what you do to prepare for the dazzling day - whether you cook a French feast, shave everything from your nose to your toes, or dress up in a sexy corset, your most important tools are your confidence and passion. Taking all the right steps and preparing all week for the big night is worthless without those. Remember that you are a beautiful person inside and out, show your confidence, compliment your partner, and make them feel like the only person in the world…at least for tonight. What steps do you take to prepare for a romantic evening? Share your thoughts with us below!

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DeLonne V.

This blog was not only informative on a number of levels, but well articulated. It took into account many of the contributing factors that lead up to that "perfect evening"
many of us do not stop to think that what we are eating or the way we are taking care of our bodies up to a week in advance really do add up


Thanks for the awesome post, I really love the advice you give here. I just tried this over the weekend with this guy I've been seeing and now, we're official! :) I didn't even realize how much goes into making a romantic night. Will be back for more!

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